Happy New Year 2007 Is Going To Be Wonderful!
It’s not always easy to move forward positively and you do have to make a conscious effort to do that at times. The more you do that, the easier it becomes to recognize a negative direction and change it now, and move forward.
Continuously striving to be happy and positive is work. It does take effort to get your mind in that state. As with anything in life though, the more you do something, the easier it becomes. For myself, I have opted to place myself in a position where the flow of energy is positive, and have disconnected certain streams of energy that constantly put out a negative and manipulative source. Since I have made that choice, it is like a weight has been lifted from my soul, and I can enjoy and live more fully in the positive now and future.
I’ve made several goals for myself for 2007, which I know I will achieve. I have also decided on doing another project that will possibly take a couple years, yet that is ok with me, because when I am done, I will have such a sense of accomplishment that it will all be worth it. A lot of work will be going into the next year, and I look forward to it.
I wish each and every person that visits my blog to have a wonderful New Year! May you reach for your dreams and make them happen.
Hugs & Love To All
Izzabelle
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Life Outside Of Being A Hypnodomme
Oops….I lost my panties….grin
I had a wonderful Thanksgiving Day yesterday. A lot of good people, and mmmm, the food was delicious. I went to a friend’s for dinner, and they have a very large family that has huge family events on the holidays. I always envied families like that when I was younger. The hustle and bustle of kids running around was great. I do miss having little ones around, though I am also thankful mine are grown…lol The holidays were always good for me growing up, but very small family. Since I went to Michigan early this year, I didn’t go there for Thanksgiving. I called and talked with my family there yesterday, and I miss them a lot. It was kind of odd not being there with them this Thanksgiving.
It has taken much longer than I expected for this dental work to heal, though I think most of it is impatience on my part. Each day becomes better as I continue to heal. I just need to find my patience…….damn, where did it go?
It sometimes amazes me what people expect from me. They can not conceive that I have a life outside of the realm of hypnosis, and that I actually had a life before I became a hypnodomme. In life there are ups and downs, and I have learned to appreciate the ups, and take the best knowledge I can from the downs. I have been fortunate enough to live my fantasies, allowing them to become reality. I know that D/s & Bdsm are not for everyone, but it is for me, and am very thankful I have lived that life real time and not just in fantasy. Though, this too, is only a part of who I am, and what I choose to share in my blog just gives you a small look into my life, it certainly doesn’t give you the whole picture.
I actually have a degree in computers, and have basically built every computer I have owned, except the last two (no…computer geek does not come to mind…) I got lazy, and the price was good…lol I think as I get older, it just gets easier to buy, than to build, and my interests have changed over the years. I have some wonderful things coming up in the spring and am really excited about them. Some of it will be attending some hypnosis seminars in Chicago. There is also a seminar here in January that I would like to attend, though timing will be dependant on that one.
My son is in the process of looking for a house(hopefully close by). I will be thrilled for him to have his own place and happy to have my privacy back, but I will miss having him here. It’s been a joy seeing him grow from the partying teenager to the nice, hard working young man he is today. I am quite proud of him. My daughter will be starting college next year here in Columbus, so this should be another interesting few years lol.
Oh, I just got a phone call and was invited out to go see Deja’ Vu at the theatre. So, I guess I am going to the movies this afternoon. I saw the previews for it and they looked pretty good.
I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving, and do enjoy your families as much as possible. Take hold of the laughter and the smiles making happy memories for your future.
Hugs!
Izzabelle
Things a submissive might want to know about approaching a Domme/Me
First of all, these are just My preferences and they do not apply to every Dominant out there. As in any attempt towards a relationship, or even friendship, common sense and manners goes a long ways. Each relationship whether it be D/s or not, will be very unique and individualized for the participants in that relationship.
When approaching a Domme online, you must understand that there are many more submissives seeking a Domme, than there are Dommes to go around. Common sense should keep you in perspective of this. When I am available, I am unindated with messages. It is absolutely impossible for Me to answer all of them, and one should not get offended in this, its just a fact of life, there is not enough time in the day for Me to answer every message, let alone have a full length conversation, and still have a life away from the computer.
It will also take a unique message from a stranger to get my attention. I do like to be impressed, and appreciate honesty, intelligence, and a sense of humor, but more so, a sincere desire to submit. I am not here for your entertainment, or to cyber with you, and that approach of it being all about you, will only get you put on ignore.
A so called submissive making it all about theirself, is not on my agenda. Being pushy, rude, and demanding of Me, will only solidify your chance of not even a conversation with Me. Expecting ANYTHING from Me, will only get you the opposite. Just because I am a Domme, does not mean I am everyones Domme, nor am I there to entertain you.
I personally do not mind polite IMs, even if I can not answer right away. It is the unique ones that will catch my attention and I may respond. I have said on numerous occasions, I do not like to be called Ma’am. Izzabelle, or Lady Izzabelle is sufficient, until you have earned the status to call Me Mistress. If you are truly interested, then you would have done your homework on a particular Domme, and found out all you could about her. To Me that shows a genuine interest, and not just trolling the chatroom for any Domme.
I believe in being descreet for more reasons than I can list. Those that need external validation of a situation, are those that can stay away from Me, for I like things to remain private as do many others that I know.
Some overall basics in approaching a Domme:
Be honest.
Respectful and well mannered
Be yourself, do not put on a face
Have self-respect and be confident in who you are
Pretty simple I think
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Throwing yourself at a Dommes feet will not attract the kind of attention you want. Show confidence in yourself as a submissive, your intelligence, an ability to hold a conversation, while allowing your sincerity to shine through, and yes, it is alright to have a sense of humor and smile/laugh, rather than cower in a corner sitting quietly with nothing productive to add to the conversation.
A so called submissive that messages Me, and says I am this old, and I like this, this and that, will you cam to cam or play with me, immediately gets ignored. They are game players and into self satisfying theirself.
For Me, if I find you appealing, I will take time to get to know you, first as a friend, then if the chemistry is right, it will naturally go into a direction that is right for both of us. This is where patience comes in. Some expect immediate play, and attention 24/7. That is not going to happen, until there is a strong foundation in the relationship.
Each person has the right to be choosy in selecting a submissive/s or Domme. When one you are interested in does not respond, take it with dignity, for if you show rudeness and pushiness, it will only build on your reputation. As with any person, whether in the lifestyle or not, treat them with respect. It will get you a lot further along, than being rude and demanding.
I can not even count the times I have asked for letters of introduction to be sent to my email, and this simple task can not be done by the so called submissive. These people go automatically on ignore, for I do not have enough time in my day for it to be wasted on insincere wannabes.
If you are not submissive and just looking to play the part, find others that are into role playing. You will get a much better response. Everyone has fetishes and desires that we wish to live out in some way, but find someone that is willing to role play with you if you truly are not submissive.
If you have just become aware of your submissiveness, knowing its been there, yet the realization has just revealed itself to you, the best thing I can give for advice is to read and educate yourself on this subject. There is a wealth of knowledge on the internet.
I do not owe my dominance to anyone, as you should not owe your submission to just anyone. Have pride in your submission, and who you give it to.
My ranting on this subject is done….for now
Oh, one more thing. Women, whether dominant or not, also like to be on the receiving end of seduction!!!!!
